In the June issue of Vogue, pop star/actress/The Voice judge Jennifer Lopez can be seen wearing various designer bathing suits and demonstrating that she still has “it” despite the fact that at 42, she’s well over the age at which most Hollywood starlets are taken behind the woodshed and shot. But what does “it” even mean? Here, I will venture to guess what “it” is that J-Lo has in each of her swimsuit photos. Besides a gravity-defying ass and aristocratic bone structure, I mean. More »
Flowers or vegetables? Dancing or crabbing? Boys or girls? Choose wisely or you’ll be sent to the sanitorium. More »
The worst part about dating, for me anyway, is the emotional baggage from past relationships that comes with it. More »
Just when you think you know The Kaiser, he turns around and surprises you with something even more resplendently ridiculous than anything he’s ever done before. More »
Being ridiculous again: Tyra Banks. -Buzzfeed Shift
John Mayer says he’s finally become an adult. -YourTango
Good books that inspired (mostly) good musicals. -The Hairpin
The 100 most popular baby names of 2011. -The Stir
Hair conditioning tips you may not know. -Divine Caroline
Here are Rodarte‘s costumes for the New York City ballet. -Racked
Solange can really pull of a romper. -The Budget Babe
A survey of The Avengers‘ style, from Hermes to Tom Ford. - BlackBook
Why Hillary Clinton‘s no make-up move is great. -HuffPost Style
Juice! Lots of calories, still. -YouBeauty
Eva Mendes has her finger on the pulse. -The Frisky
The terrible, preventable death of model Diana O’Brien. -Model Alliance
Buy Carey Mulligan‘s Prada Met Gala dress. -NYMag
Piperlime gets a brick and mortar. -The High Low
A great review of the Met’s latest fashion exhibit, Impossible Conversations. -Styleite
Actually nice looking workout gear? Can it be?! -Refinery29
Mischa Barton reaches for relevance in a cutout dress. -StyleList
Let’s take a moment to decide if this is what we need to do with our afternoon. More »
Though they could set the price a lot higher. More »

I recently attended a local Weight Watchers meeting to speak about an upcoming charity walk/bike ride. Much to my surprise, when I walked in, the receptionist at the front table asked if I “needed to be weighed.” No, I don’t “need” to be weighed, I told her. No one “needs” to be weighed. To me, weighing people in public is just offensive and humiliating. And it goes against everything I believe in about how to get people healthy.
I get that Weight Watchers is all about helping people lose weight. Really, I do. But I don’t believe in scales. As a matter of fact, when I used to be a personal trainer (who worked with a lot of women trying to lose weight), I always advised them not to weigh themselves. Because, quite simply, weighing yourself is a recipe for disaster. More »
No? That’s a 1950′s archetype, right? Because people do not go around saying “hey good lookin’, what you got cookin’?” Or “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach?” Because that’s not true. What’s the way to a man’s heart? Through his chest cavity. Who knows that? This guy: More »
Jennifer Love Hewitt has a couple modes: one is talking about her weight, one is talking about her vagina. Both keep her in the press in some marginal capacity. Today, she’s talking about her vagina. More »

When it was reported that Girls Scouts troop leader Ana Juarez was charged with stealing $6,000 worth of cookie money from her troop, the mother seemed to stand along in her deplorable crime. The shame of not only stealing from children, but also from her very own 6-year-old daughter who was also in the troop, would make any parent hope that this was an isolated incident. But apparently, Girl Scout leaders getting their hand caught in the cookie jar is by no means a rare occurrence.
A reader named Brandy commented on Mommyish that instances of money theft in Girl Scouts are not “unheard of.” When she was a Brownie, another parent stole cookie money from her mother’s Girl Scouts troop. She added, “There isn’t enough oversight of money.” More »
There’s no one reason why fashion models are extremely thin. You’ll hear everything from clients, sample sizes, and agency demands to competition between models and the public that buys magazines featuring them. One of the more steadfast beliefs, though, is that models are thin because fashion is “aspirational” and women want to buy more than clothes: they want some abstract impossible thinness, youth, beauty, etc. As one researcher says, “It’s better to use extremely thin models because that’s what makes women feel bad about themselves and want to buy the products.” More »