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Breasts jobs are good from a relationship standpoint because they show that a woman is invested in keeping herself looking good. She probably won't get fat later!
Him: I've had my hands on plenty of tits that I assume were fake because girls that size are not built to have great tits.
Me: Please take a step back and think about how every aspect of that sentence makes you sound.
Him: Wait, okay, say I said this "I've been in meaningful relationships with a lot of women who may or may not have had plastic surgery because... their... d cups... were... great." Actually, whatever. You don't notice that much! It's fine! Or you do notice, but it's not a big deal. But you can probably tell just because even men do have some awareness of how bodies naturally look, and it's unlikely that a stick thin girl suddenly has cantalopes on her chest.
If my girlfriend got fake breasts I'd probably play with them and enjoy them, but it would also make me think twice about marrying her, because I'd wonder if she had self esteem issues that were going to get weird later. Have you seen that woman who turned herself into a cat? Like that.
Here is my stance: THEY ARE STILL BREASTS!! And MEN LOVE BREASTS!
I'm generally not a guy who's into large breasts, so implants really have little appeal for me,
though I suppose I wouldn't tell anyone they shouldn't get plastic surgery. Though boob jobs are actually, to my mind, more ridiculous than the rest.
My girlfriend had fake breasts and you would never know it. How natural they feel depends on when you have had then put in. At first, yes, you can easily tell. But after a couple years it becomes more natural, but they are never 100% natural. When you squeeze them it is harder than natural. You can feel there is something there.
What you're talking about is BAD fake breasts. And yes, you can tell those aren't real. But well done fake breasts you can't tell at all, because they're supposed to look and feel natural. The trick is to have them inserted under the muscle.
My college girlfriend had really spectacular, large, well-shaped breasts, but I never noticed (after having had a crush on her for months) until she took her clothes off. I'm pretty sure they weren't fake because I've held bags of silicone, and they've felt different. I must admit I cannot be sure I haven't felt fake breasts, but in her case I know they were real because she'd always been embarassed by how large her breasts were in high school.
Breasts jobs are good from a relationship standpoint because they show that a woman is invested in keeping herself looking good. She probably won't get fat later!
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realmenlikerealboobs.com good info for women
God some people..
Don’t justify plastic surgery, it has no benefits unless your face was horribly scarred by burns or an animal attack and you can’t walk out in public without getting shunned by people. Even then, the fake shallow bitches go farther in life than an actual genuine person with a good personality.
If you’re average looking, get some self esteem. Cheaper than paying to go under a knife, and probably because you paid to look fake you’re delusional when you try to justify why you did it.
“I was not shallow before I got bought boobs and I am not shallow now. Have 4 graduate degrees and a life time of wisdom.”
Yeah, that’s not shallow, who cares that you have 4 graduate degrees? It’s not shallow, it’s stupid that a person can’t feel happy about themselves because they’re in denial about getting old.
realmenlikerealboobs.com good info there
That gallery of pictures shows how pathetic plastic surgeons are outside of California. A good boob job looks natural. Silicon feels awesome. Water filled ones–not so much. Some of those women look like they have water filled balloons pasted to their chest.
I am a woman in Nomberts category. Over sixty with a face lift and a boob job. Was always really attractive and wanted to stay looking like ME. –not my mother. Don’t flaunt them and don’t have the wind tunnel look. Most people don’t know how old I am and that I have had any work. When people find out the typical reaction is “are you shitting me?”
No matter how old you get you still feel young inside. I found seeing bags under my eyes made me feel tired. I felt more energetic after the face lift because the mirror was not longer telling me I was someone I wasn’t. Boobs sag. You can’t pick them up and put them back where they were without adding implants. I didn’t want to be bigger. I just wanted my boobs back where they started out.
I enjoy looking good for me–not for any guy. My husband of 20 years adores me because I am fun and honest–not for my boobs. I was not shallow before I got bought boobs and I am not shallow now. Have 4 graduate degrees and a life time of wisdom.
Nombert gets it. The guys who say all boobs are good get it. The women who take their AAs and have hot sex get it.
The people who are judgmental don’t get it and are exposing their lack of life experience.
Some do and some don’t.
I find women with fake breasts to be fake as well,Whereas those which are comfortable as a natural woman are more natural people .Thank for staying natural
It is likely that many of the men commenting here are young, and have experience only with youngish women. I am a much older guy and just want to chime in here to point out that as women age their breasts become telling statements of that aging and that no one — repeat, no one — finds this attractive. The woman may remain beautiful in every other way, and the most wonderful, loving person, and the guy may love her more than ever regardless of the condition of her breasts. But her breasts are definitely not going to be as attractive as they used to be — unless she has implants. With implants she can become more attractive than she ever was before. Just think about that for a second: MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN SHE EVER WAS BEFORE…and she’s way over 40, over 50, even over 60, or yes, over 70! Breast implants enable a woman to retain benefits of youthfulness by years, even decades. So the great majority of women “need” or anyway “will want” implants sooner or later. And implant technology has improved spectacularly. I assure you they do not feel like bags of sand: They feel normal. Implants are a wonderful, wonderful thing. I don’t see anyone here saying they actually prefer implants over natural: Well let me be the first to state overtly that I do prefer implants over natural — and to inform you younger guys that ‘you will too,’ eventually. Oh sure if I had access to women 35 years younger than me, I might say: “Um, I’ll take natural,” but that’s not realistic. Realistically I am going to be only with a women closer to my age — and I definitely want her to have breast implants. And a face lift.
While I admire your honesty, I can’t help but feel that you are very shallow. Yeah I get it, young breasts are beautiful, old breasts, not so much, but for you to say that you want the woman you are with to have breast implants and a face lift just shows what you really value about someone. That is so sad, especially at your age, you would think you would know the better qualities to look for. I feel sorry for your next lady, I bet she dosen’t like your saggy ass and grey, wrinkled balls either. Maybe you should get them implanted and lifted. Just a thought.
I’m so curious to know if you’d have a face-lift or liposuction or whatever a love interest deemed desirable? If your ideals go both ways, then by all means continue to be a shallow man but I’m going to take a wild guess this is a double standard of yours. Also, it’s not up to you what a woman does to her body, whether or not you “want” her to have implants.
Well, Chrisitna and Amy, guys of all ages do care about women’s looks. You may call this “shallow” and indeed I would not disagree: It is shallow, but that’s the way boys are: They like more attractive women more than they like less attractive women. This truth is hardwired into all men, and all men respond to this aspect of their mental makeup to some degree. Certainly some guys are “too” interested in looks, to the exclusion of all else, while other guys are – sensibly – more balanced in their view of this matter. But all guys care to some extent, and therefore all women care about their appearance to some extent if they want to do all they can to attract or retain a guy in their life. There is nothing wrong with this, is there? This is merely and simply the nature of humans, and globally so.
And now, addressing this fact-of-life, comes science with ways to make appearances better for longer periods of our lives – and yes, that’s science that is available to men and women alike, as you rightly point out. There’s nothing wrong with that science, is there?
Investment in these technologies of personal enhancement and preservation does not imply that ‘looks’ are all that one values about one’s lady (or gentleman), so please do not leap to that conclusion. Of course there are other important qualities exactly as you say Chrisitna, and as I took care to note in my original post.
And of course both of you (Chrisitna and Amy) are correct that women too are extremely likely to prefer the better-looking guy over the “saggy-assed” one, and it will be the wise man indeed who keeps himself looking as good as he can, by undertaking appropriate implants and lifts: Yes, Amy, I will do that for my lady and am well along in the decisionmaking of exactly what I plan to do.
So far, in my family, all the available money for cosmetic surgery is going for her work. I’ve so far been limited to the gains I can make at the gym, which have been considerable: I work hard at it! I’ll definitely be in the doctor’s office for cosmetic surgery at some point, and having seen the astounding results on my lady, I’m eager to benefit from cosmetic science as well — even as I continue to be the best guy I can be in all other ways, for her and our family.
We consider cosmetic surgery to be a worthwhile investment in the maximization of the quality of our lives. And we both find it a thrill to look at each other and see a person who is not only wonderful in so many ways, but also better-looking than before. What’s wrong with that?
What is so wrong with gracefully getting old? Now that is a beautiful woman to me.
Yeah, women with implants are more attractive TO YOU. I’ve got large As/small Bs and at my size, they will not be sagging, thank you very much. Implants are for the superficial gals (and apparently guys).
Big fake boobs are great. perky little boobs are great. my favorite boobs are the next ones.
Why would you promote such a banal and sophomoric statement as Henry’s?
Why are most of the women in this gallery drug-addicted singers or porn stars? I think whoever put this gallery together has a weird agenda about plastic surgery. There are plenty of women in Hollywood who’ve had plastic surgery and breast implants (i.e. Demi Moore) who don’t look so dumb and slutty.
A lot of ladies seemed kind of depressed by the imagery and commentary in this article, so I feel like this needs to be said.
Here’s how you handle this article as a small-breasted woman: You read the article, sit back in your chair, take a drink of whatever you might currently be cradling (wine? juice? breast milk?) and think, “Well, that’s a sorry lot that judges women by their breast size.”
Having read this, my AA-cups and I are going to go have great sex with a great guy who loves me for who I am, regardless of how large any part of me is or ever will be.
Amazing that we all forget this perspective which, really, makes far more sense.
Thank you, Meggy.
hi dear friend i ll be one who want u just because of you see you
Looks are not everything but they will help you stay interested in each other over the years. My exwife was 140 pounds when we married. She was over 400 pounds and our marriage went down hill. I am not saying she needed to stay small either after 2 kids. It is the same with breast. To little to look at and play with can be a problem. I dated a lady with a B cup and she asked why I did not play with her breast like others she had been with. It is hard to say what breast.
Hey Gloss,
Can you do a feature on men who like small boobs?
Or maybe men who like things that are not the things we’re all told we’re supposed to have?
I’m actually surprised they found so many that seem to be tit men? The dudes I know are all about the ass.
But seriously, I don’t think guys are as “into” big breasts as women seem to think and/or are told. Enormity is always impressive, but I think round-ness, symmetry & perkiness are more important.
If you can touch em…they’re real!
Safa
In my younger years, I went from A cup to a B cup. Then I found a man who knew how to “play” with my breasts. In fact, he played with them to the point that I went to a C cup and now I’m a D cup. I am 51 years old and my breasts are perky, don’t sag, and actually start kinda from underneath my arms some. My boyfriend always has been a breast man and he had been with women with fake breasts. He said he got turned off when the women would lay on their sides and you could see “wrinkles”, or when he would grab, maybe a little to hard, would leave indentations. He said that was a major turn off. Then I came along and now he appreciates the woman with natural breasts, and even tho mine have “grown”, he said that because of his love for me, size really wouldn’t have mattered.
In the epic words of Master Yoda “size matters not.” Most guys are not actually fixated on breasts and we couldn’t necessarily tell cup size in and of itself. What guys are looking for is proportionality, a petite athletic girl with A or B cups looks pretty good to us; likewise, girls who are relatively fit to average seem to look great in B or C. As you get more chesty on average and smaller frames, the individuals begins to look more “top heavy” which isn’t necessarily all that attractive. Allow me to reiterate that the average guy is really just happy that you have a proportional bust. That being said, I wholeheartedly support the strides made in breast augmentation because it has eased the psychological suffering of many breast cancer survivors, and that is to be commended.
I’m a guy and I love breasts of all sizes, as long as they’re NATURAL. I have a particular affinity for small breasts, even though I had a girlfriend once with natural H cups. Small and perky are wonderful. It hurts me every time I hear a woman being critical of her breasts (which I’d love to enjoy) just because she feels insecure about their size.
Looking at some enormous fake boobs can be great; however, only real will do when it comes to touching them.
I guess in other words, it doesn’t matter unless I’m touching them. If I am, fake ones feel pretty terrible.
Didn’t you already do this question like a year ago?
this. http://thegloss.com/beauty/girl-hot-vs-guy-hot-breast-implants/
I have lost even more faith in humanity after reading this, even though I totally knew where it was going. Me and my A cups are going to sit in a corner now.
Wow. Can you interview some non-douches, please? (Dan seems okay, though.)
Incidentally, I love that Henry can’t spell. Or insists on pluralizing inappropriately.