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Tuesday, March 3, 2009 - 3:55 pm ET
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The Bachelor Finale, Would You?

If you don’t watch ABC’s The Bachelor then you’re probably asking, “Would I what?”. Before I explain my question, let me just say first hand that I don’t watch The Bachelor either. I find it insulting and highly degrading that Women would subject themselves shame just to find a guy. And these Women aren’t the kind of desperate whory Women you’ll find from Bret Michaels’ Rock of Love. The Women from The Bachelor all look decent, intelligent and professionals. But for some reason they think it’s ok to go on a reality show to find a husband. Anyway, I only found out what happened on the show last night because Elizabeth from The View spent about 20 minutes painfully reliving the nightmare that was The Bachelor finale.

Apparently, The Bachelor’s decision was controversial. See, Jason Mesnick dumped the girl named Molly for the girl named Melissa. But wait, during the finale reunion, he changed his mind, dumped Melissa, and then went back to Molly. Oh My Gosh! I know that there are still a few Men out there who act like dogs but I don’t know anyone who would do it on national TV for millions to see. And to think this Bachelor is a Father. Being a Single Dad was the major factor of the show. The Women were all just itching to be the stepmother of the little boy.

Now if you are a Man reading this, my question is, would you dump a girl (cry your heart out about how much it hurts to do so) for another girl, and then dump that girl to go back to the other girl?

If you are a woman, would you accept the proposal after you were already dumped and humiliated?

I could go on and and on about what a jerk this Jason Mesnick is but the show had women who wanted to be his “wife”. They said Love is blind, but come on now. There are also the things called brains, decency, self-esteem, self-respect and oooh I don’t know, match.com or eharmony.com.

Having said all that, I have a conspiracy theory going on in my head. What if it wasn’t The Bachelor’s decision to go this way? What if ABC instructed him to dump Molly, pick Mellisa, then dump her and then pick Molly? It’s a twist for the TV ratings my friends. The show needed a MAJOR ta-daaaah moment to keep the viewers glued on TV.

This will then make Melissa, the next Bachelorette who will find her own Man after being dumped on TV. It’s the best scenario for a the next season. Hey, I’m just saying.

Like I said, it’s a theory so please don’t sue me for libel, or whatever. I hope you enjoyed the “Womanizer’ video that a perturbed fan made and posted on YouTube :) .

Tuesday, March 3, 2009 - 3:55 pm ET
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  1. Franca Schulte

    This season was definitely rigged. I’m a true Bachelor fan and know that this season had to have been fake.Of course it is alright for him to have changed his mind, people fall in and out of love all the time but to do it on national television? Jason wouldn’t do that. I have a feeling they knew that him and Molly had a connection very close on in the game but to boost ratings they paid Jason big bucks to choose someone else so that he can go back to Molly in the end. I think Molly was in on it too and knew that he would go back to her in the end because she wasn’t as shocked and surprised as she should have been. I think poor Melissa had no idea what was going on but I really think Bachelor took it to a whole other level in a wrong way.

  2. Tim

    I say the bachelor guy should be commended!! So what … you feel bad for a girl got her feelings hurt cause she went out with some dude for 6 weeks on a reality tv show?? Come off it ladies. If you’re that naive to think you can find love on national tv. So what the guy changed his mind. And you haven’t?

  3. Dexie

    Trista is probably the only one with a successful relationship after coming out of the show. Pretty much all of them breakup after a year.

  4. Nammeh

    I never wanted to watch the Bachelor, mostly because if a guy was going out with a different girl every night and grading them for a final showdown, we’d all think he was a louse, but because it’s on TV, he gets bonus points…
    The guy sounds like a jerk, no guy should ever try to pull something like that and Molly shouldn’t have taken him back… buuuut if she did really love him, I can understand why she would.

  5. Tracy

    I’m so glad you are as enthralled with “The Bachelor” drama as I am. And why I am going back for more to watch tonight’s damage control, AFTR, Pt. 2? Jason is a manipulative jerk who uses his son to attract women. And other folks also have the theory that this was all set-up by ABC and that Jason wanted to pick Molly from the beginning. I also think she knew what was up before last night’s AFTR show. Why else would she take him back so quickly? But to answer your question, would I? Heck to the Nah!

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