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Mon, Aug 22 - 11:07 am ET

Real Talk: Does Shejaculation Ever Happen In Real Life?

Female ejaculation is something only porn stars do, right? Right? OR IS IT? Maybe it’s happening to everyone all the time! Maybe you feel awkward now! We polled a group of our male and female friends to hear whether it happens in the regular course of events, or if it’s something that only trained professionals attempt. We’ll accompany their thoughts with some very subtle pictures of women in front of fountains.

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  1. By FiggyLeaf

    Ok, I know this sounds really naive, and I guess I am — I almost always experience “something” like squirting or gushing (a ot or a little wetness anyway) when I’m masturbating with a vibrator. I always assumed it was pee. But it recently happened with my (experienced) lover who was working my g-spot at the time, and I just knew that I was having the most incredible orgasm, but still don’t now whether it was ejaculation or pee. I was really embarrassed — and my bf just said that something was really wet. I would think that he would have experienced this (with other women) previously and would have known. I don’t know whether it was ejaculate or pee. Any opinions????

  2. By Dan

    I’ve only had this happen with one girl and its definitely real. I was kind of shocked at first and then I said, hey, why not? Never happened again.

  3. By tia

    This for sure happens, but you have to learn how to do it. My boyfriend (at the time) was really into the idea so we had to look it up on a few forums and really read up on it. There are a few tricks. First, you have to completely relax and trust the person our with (at least for the learning period) because it is a pretty odd experience. Second, yes it does feel like you are going to pee but only for a second. You have to release that feeling and let it go in order to “shejaculate”. Third, be prepared for a lot of fluid, and in my experience it it does smell and taste different. Not odorless and tasteless like some people have been saying. To me it it slightly salty…but that could just do with diet?

  4. By Laura

    It is absolutely possible! I’ve squirted with a few men and they loved it. The women who haven’t experienced it yet well, you should try to have some better sex. Clearly you haven’t had an extremely mind-blowing, intense orgasm yet. They are AMAZING! You have to completely let down your guard, completely clear your mind and just let the sex take you away. Good luck to all you “squirting isn’t possible” believers!

    • By Shanay

      It’s amazing… until you have to clean the sheets. It doesn’t come out very easily….

  5. By suthrnboy

    I’ve read two posts on this site so far, and good god I feel sorry for people if they regularly get their info from here. Female ejaculation is NOT pee. It generally “comes” along with combined G-spot/clitoral stimulation, though, just like the other kind of orgasm, it is quite different for every woman.

  6. By carolyn

    yes, it’s definately real. The first time it happened to me I was so embarrased I said the waterbed must have a leak! Yiikes, how stupid is that? My then boyfriend loved it and felt it was a sign of doing something right. And I’ll tell you, that’s not the only thing he did right! I married him and it was everything a marraige should be. Unfortunately, he died last yeat. Never again will my waterbed leak.

  7. By The Rabbit

    I think it’s for real. Doing the right way of triggering the woman during Sex, there’s no reason for her not to ejaculate :)

  8. By Patrick

    My wife was the first woman I’ve ever been with that has ejaculated. I’ve done a lot of research on the subject and studied female anatomy in detail. The liquid is produced by the “Skenes Glands”. Total G spot orgasm. Sometimes, depending on how excited she is, she squirts a huge amount, other times just a little. She almost drowned me once while going down on her.
    Although my wife is embarrassed by it, I happen to think it’s the hottest and most erotic thing I’ve ever experienced.

  9. By Rachel

    It definitely is possible. My boyfriend has caused me to “shejaculate” many times. One time we were having some fun before getting in the shower and we ended up standing in a huge pool of it – the entire floor was soaked! And now he jokingly calls me “Niagara Falls” when that happens haha. But yes, it can happen, and it is absolutely amazing…if he stimulates your G-spot it’s much more likely, though. Also, drinking lots of water helps, too (no, not because it’s pee – it definitely isn’t), because it increases your lubrication, making your orgasms easier and more pleasurable.

  10. By Julia

    I have always had very wet climaxes, it started when I was a teenager and I’m now 54! It often “spurts”out, sometimes it merely trickles out, but it is always clear, odourless and pretty well tasteless (yes, I’ve tasted it on my husband’s lips and fingers!). I can ejaculate several times in a session, sometimes the climaxes get so close together that I feel as though the fluid is just constantly dribbling out. Makes for a pretty big wet patch!

    • By Dennis

      Julia, congrats on making this special for your partner. Once a man gets the hang of how to accomplish it the frequency definitely increases [though certainly not EVERY partner] has the ability.

    • By omer

      It started when you were teenager ? what about now ? is it continuous what I mean you fell like that at any time you have sex or you miss some times of your life sex ?

    • By Julia

      The only difference nowdays is that it sometimes takes me longer to reach that point, but my ejaculations are still just as pleasurable, just as copious and just as much of a thrill for my husband.

  11. By hannah

    of course it happens, its happened to me thousands of times during sex. it can happen anytime even in forplay, (depending on how good your partner is with his hands). all i can say is the first time it happened i could of easily died because it happened with my current boyfriend of whom i lost my virginity with and i didnt know what to do! it feels like your going to wet yourself and then all of a sudden it just comes out, ive had gushes of it a few times-like off porno’s- and the feeling is so intense its amazing. i always thought it was strange, but it really turns men on!

  12. By Steph

    I have never done it, but that’s because I’ve always held it in for fear that I was actually going to pee. I may have to let go now to see what happens.

  13. By gail

    Where did you find these women? Yes it’s real. And it’s amazing.

  14. By Geraldine

    I love how the comments were 1 million times more informative and interesting than the opinions in the slides on this one.

  15. By dani

    I’ve never had a guy get me off…but when I’m masturbating I have squirted before and even gushed some..not like in porn…but a lot of it and it comes out pretty fast…I always thought women could possibly do it..I never doubted that fact like these women do…

  16. By Allison

    It’s kind of funny how many people don’t believe it happens. I’ve had it happen to me for about 2 years now but over the last few months the frequency has increased. Now it happens almost every other time when I have sex, and once in awhile through masturbation. It’s not as extreme as it is in porn but it does gush out quite suddenly and it feels very intense. I don’t know why so many people would assume it’s pee. Anyone who has ever experienced it or has seen/felt anyone do it should know it isn’t.

  17. By Jamie

    I have ejaculated during masturbation before. I was far from gushing, but I would definitely call it squirting. The sensation is very similar to feeling like you really have to pee. The fluid was more milky than urine, though. I may have ejaculated during intercourse two or three times, but I didn’t have the visual confirmation.

  18. By Pam

    it really happens! im able to achieve it..when my BF is standing and i lay in the bed with my legs bend on the bed… i just had that peeing feeling so i read you just had to let it go.. so i did it.. and a big squirt came all over my BFs face, i almost cry!! haha it was awesome!! its a very very intense orgasm!!
    so it really exists!! its not an urban legend.

  19. By Abigail

    Of course it’s real, and I’ve had it happen during sex multiple times, with one particular partner. Clearly, most women you polled have no clue how their body works.

  20. By Jill T

    Yes…it is very real. Men ejaculate about 1 teaspoon to 1 tablespoon but women can ejaculate up to 2 cups. It is an odorless, colorless fluid. AND it usually accompanies a G-spot orgasm. The G-spot is located about 1.5 to 3 inches inside the vagina on the front side and is a bundle of nerves that become engorged with blood during arousal. Most women enjoy either a “come hither” motion applied with 2 fingers on the G-spot or some prefer a gentle tapping motion. Should you feel that you have to pee – don’t stop – keep going – as this bundle of nerves is adjacent to your bladder. Keep on & you will have a wonderful orgasm.